69

Simultaneous fellatio and cunnilingus.

A

Anal sex.

A-Levels

Anal sex.

Abstinence

Refraining from all sexual activity

Abstinence Only Curricula

Sexuality education programs that advocate sexual abstinence before marriage. They do not provide information about contraception, safer sex, or sexual orientation.

AC/DC

Bisexual.

Active

The aggressive sexual partner

Agate

A small penis

Age of Consent

The age at which one is considered old enough to decide to have sexual intercourse.

Age of Majority

The age at which one becomes a legal adult.

Age play

Role playing involving pretending to be a child and often wearing children's clothing. Adult babies.

AIDS

(Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome) A set of conditions associated with the last stages of HIV disease

Algolagnia

Another word for sadomasochism (SM) Algolagnia is when pain is transformed into sexual pleasure

Alternative sexuality

A sexual orientation with a few variations that differ from vaginal intercourse when a monogamous heterosexual relationship has been established

Alternative lifestyle

Sexual preference that is very different from the "norm," making it necessary and/or desirable. If the alternative sexuality is less common than the norm it will push the individual to reach an accepted subculture

Alveoli

Sacs inside the breast that produce milk

Androgens:

Certain hormones that stimulate male sexual development and secondary male sex characteristics. They are most abundantly produced in the  testicles of men but are also produced in small amounts in women's ovaries. The most common androgen is testosterone

Androgynous / Androgyny

One who is / the quality of simultaneously exhibiting "masculine" and "feminine" characteristics. Androgyny: A person psychologically intermediate between male and female; or a person who rejects a specifically male or female gender role.

Animal play

When one or both partners pretend to be an animal (Ex: dog, horse) in a role play

Anal /Anal intercourse

Using the rectum for Sexual Intercourse

Anilingus

Kissing and penetration of the anus by tongue

Anorgasmia

The inability to have an orgasm.

Anus

The opening of the rectum

Aphrodisiac

A substance that is supposed to increase sexual desire

Areola

The dark area surrounding the nipples of women and men

Around the world

Kissing the entire body before sex

Asexual

Absence of sexual feeling

Auto-eroticism

Masturbation

Auto-fellatio

Performing fellation on ones own penis

Auto-sadism

An act whereby one inflicts pain on oneself

AW0

Anal without a condom.  

Back scuttle

Perform anal intercourse

Bag

The scrotum

Back yard

The buttocks

Balanitis

An inflammation of the glands and foreskin of the penis that can be caused by infections (including sexually transmitted infections) irritations, drugs, or other factors.

Ball

A wild sex activity

Balls

The testicles

Banana

The penis

Bare-assed

Nude

Bareback

Sex Without a condom

Barrier

Methods of Birth Control Contraceptives that block sperm from entering the uterus. These are the condom, vaginal pouch, diaphragm, cervical cap, and spermicide.

Bartholin's Glands

Glands in the labia menorah on each side of the opening to the vagina that provide lubrication during sexual excitement.

Basket

The bulge of male sex organ in clothing

Basket shopping

Observing the male organ through clothing

Berdache

Male-to-female and female-to-male cross dressers who were accepted and performed a variety of roles in various North American Indian societies. The word in its original language is negative, so one sociologist writing about these individuals has used the terms man-woman and woman-man

BBBF

Bareback butt fuck

BBBJ

Bareback blow job

BBF

Bareback fuck

BBW

Big beautiful woman

BDSM

In the beginning it was called sadomasochism(sm, s/m or s&m.) People involved in sadomasochism were described as bad, sick and pervert. Since some people did not want to be called or described that way, terms like dominance and submission (d&s, ds or d/s), love bondage and bondage and discipline (b&d) were invented to be different from sadomasochists. In the 90's during the internet revolution all kinky people were establishing arguments to label their kinks. After months of  arguments the term bdsm was born. Most of the kinky people were happy after the term was issued. BDSM combines bondage and discipline (bd), dominance and submission (ds) and sadomasochism (sm.)

BJ Blow job

A strange term for fellatio

Beat off

Masturbation

Beefcake

Male possessing sex appeal

Biastophilia

A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on sexually attacking a non consenting, surprised, terrified, and struggling stranger. This is a kind of rape, but most rapes are committed by normophilic men.

Bigendered

One who switches between masculine and feminine gender roles from  time to time.

Bimanual Exam

Physical examination of the internal reproductive organs of the pelvis.

Biphobia

The oppression or mistreatment of Bisexuals, especially by lesbians and gay men. (See homophobia.)

Birth control

Actions which prevent pregnancy because of sexual intercourse

Bi-sexual

Engaging in sexual activities with members of both sexes

Bisexual/Bi

A person who has sexual and emotional relationships with both women  and men, though not necessarily at the same time.

Bitch

A loose woman or feminine male

Bladder

The organ that collects and stores urine produced by the kidney. The bladder is emptied through the urethra.

Blind

An uncircumcised penis

Blow job

The act of oral intercourse

Blue balls

Severe need to experience sexual orgasm. The genital aching that may  occur when men do not have an ejaculation following sexual stimulation. Women may experience similar aches if they do not reach orgasm, but because of sexist influences in development of our language about sex,  there is no common expression to describe a woman's symptoms.

Body Image

One's attitudes and feelings about one's own body and appearance.

Bondage

When restraints are placed on the body in any practice to avoid any type of movement

Bondage and Discipline

Also known as B&D, it involves several sexual practices like bondage, slave training, corporal punishment and dominant/submissive role play

Boston Marriage

Used primarily in nineteenth century New England to refer to two women  who set up a household together for an extended period of time. Some Boston marriages were undoubtedly lesbian in nature, but others were probably platonic.

Bring off

Ejaculation in the male

Bronco

Young boy who is difficult to restrain during sex

Brown

To perform anal intercourse

Brownie queen

Passive partner in anal intercourse

Brown shower

Another name for hardsports

Brut service

Facial, Cumming over the prostitutes ( Splash it all over )

Bull dagger

An extremely masculine lesbian. The term is often used negatively.

Bugger

To perform anal intercourse

Bull-dyke

A masculine female homosexual

Bummer

Active partner in anal sex

Buns

The buttocks

Butch

A lesbian who prefers traditionally masculine dress, style, expression, or identity.

BV (Bacterial Vaginosis)

An inflammation of the vagina (vaginitis) that is caused by a change in the balance of vaginal bacteria.

Camp

Behave in an effeminate manner, an affectation usually done in humour which might involve a satirical or sarcastic depiction of the opposite sex.

Candida

A type of yeast and the most common cause of vaginitis.

Caning

The use of a cane on a bottom

Castration

Render the testicles inoperable by surgery

Cat or cat o' nine tails

Originally it was a whip used by the British Navy. Actually it is referred to all whips which are multi-thonged

CD

Cross dresser, cross-dressing.

Celibacy

Not having sex play.

Cervix

The narrow lower part of the uterus (womb), with an opening connecting  the uterus to the vagina.

Chancroid

A sexually transmitted bacterium that causes open genital sores.

Change your luck

To engage in a gay sex for the first time

Chaste

To engage in ordinary sexual activities

Chastity Belts

A variety of devices designed to prevent women, men, or children from having sex. Used from medieval to modern times, these devices were also supposed to preserve morality. Some were meant to ensure fidelity in women in the absence of their husbands. Others were designed to prevent masturbation and nocturnal emissions in men and boys.

Cheat

To be unfaithful to one's sex partner

Chemical Castration

The use of Depo-Provera to decrease sexual desire and arousal.

Cherry

One who is still a virgin,

CIM

Come in mouth

Circumcision

Surgical removal of the foreskin

Chlamydia

A common sexually transmitted organism that can cause sterility in women and men.

Clap

Gonorrhoea or other venereal disease (std)

Climacteric

The time of change that leads to menopause. The physiological midlife changes for women and men

Climax

To achieve the high point of sex activity

Clit

The clitoris

Clitoral Hood

A small flap of skin that covers and protects the clitoris.

Clitoris

A small erectile organ located in the forward area of the wife's vulva. Stimulation of the clitoris during foreplay and sexual intercourse can enhance the wife chances of an orgasm

Closet

The confining state of being secretive about one's homosexuality

Closet queen

A male homosexual who hides his desires for men

Closeted

Hiding one's sexuality or gender predilection from others or the public. Closet case.

Code word(s)

Word or words that are used in personal ads to unnotice sexual proclivities mostly unacceptable in society. Ex: French or Greek culture, clean, discipline, strict, leather, etc.

COF

Cum On Face.

Cohabitation

Living together in a sexual relationship.

Coitus

Sexual intercourse

Coitus in ano

Anal intercourse

Coitus interruptus

Withdrawal of the penis prior to ejaculation

Cold

Unresponsive to sexual relations

Colposcope

A viewing instrument with a bright light and magnifying lens that is used to examine the vagina and cervix.

Come out

To acknowledge one's homosexuality, either to oneself or to others; most often a public declaration of being lesbian or gay.

Completion

Orgasm. For example, OWO to completion means until you cum

Comparison

Warm happy feelings experienced when noticing ones loved ones enjoying loving relationships with others. The opposite of jealousy

Conception

The moment when the pre-embryo attaches to the lining of the uterus and pregnancy begins; term also used to describe the fertilization of the egg  with a man sperm

Condom

A sheath of thin rubber, plastic, or animal tissue that is worn on the penis during sexual intercourse. It is an over-the-counter, reversible barrier method of birth control, and it also provides protection against the most serious sexually transmitted infections.

Consensual

An agreement made by parties for certain type of behaviour or activities. When the consent is informed and there is a reasonable knowledge of possible risks is called true consent.

Continence

To refrain from sexual activity

Contraceptive

The prevention of pregnancy; birth control.

Corpus Cavernosa

Two strips of tissue that lie on each side of the urethra in the penis. During sexual excitement, they fill with blood to create an erection.

Corpus Spongiosum

The tissue that surrounds the urethra inside the penis and is responsible, like the corpus cavernosa, for an erection; also the type of tissue that forms  the glands of the clitoris and the penis.

Corona

Rim of flesh which forms the base of the head of penis

Cowgirl

A position for sexual intercourse with the man on his back &the woman sitting on top.

Cowper's Glands

The glands beneath the prostate gland that are attached to the urethra. They produce a substance that makes seminal fluid sticky.

Covered

With a condom

CP

Corporal punishment. You used to be able to get this in return for stealing things, but it doesn't work that way any more

Crabs

Lice which infect the pubic area of the body

Cremaster Reflex

An automatic response to stimulation (for example, cold temperature or touching the inside of the thigh) in which the cremaster muscle pulls the scrotum and testes closer to the body.

Creampie

Ejaculation in the vagina (or anus) without a condom

Cross dresser

A person who occasionally dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex for sexual or emotional pleasure, or both. The most commonly-used term, having replaced transvestite. May be male or female, hetero- or homosexual, bi- or solo sexual, and may partially or wholly cross-dress.

Cross-dressing

The practice of dressing in clothes traditionally assigned to the opposite gender; also called transvestitism or drag.

Cryptorchidism

The condition in which one or both of the testicles do not descend from the lower abdomen before puberty.

Cum

Semen

Cum facial

Same as facial

Cunnilingus

Stimulation of the woman s genital area, especially the clitoris, with the husband's lips and tongue.

CWM

CyberWhoreMonger. A punter who uses the Internet in connection with his paid-sex activities. This is mainly an American term, and contrasts with CyberCourtesan.

Date Rape

Coerced sexual intercourse during a dating relationship.

Delayed Ejaculation

Commonly used term for inhibited orgasm in men.

Depo-Provera®

A progestin that is injected into the buttock or arm every 12 weeks to prevent pregnancy. It is a reversible method of birth control available only  by prescription.

Diaphragm

A soft rubber dome intended to fit securely over the cervix. Used with contraceptive cream or jelly, the diaphragm is a reversible barrier method of birth control available only by prescription.

Dirt

Sex slave members who's checks bounce

Discipline

The other part of Bondage (B&D) that could also mean punishment or a structured training of a submissive.

Doggie style

A position for sexual intercourse - the woman on her knees, the man entering from behind.

Dominance

dominance and submission, D/S, D&S Used for erotic enhancement, one partner uses consensual empowerment for the other partner. In SM, dominance and submission are the psychological and emotional underpinnings.

Dominant, Dom, Domme, Domina, Dominatrix

The person that in a consensual exchange of power is in charge. If the person is a male is called dominant or Dom; if is a female is called a Domme, Domina or Dominatrix

Don Juanism

The desire by a man to have sex very frequently with many different partners.

Dose

Gonorrhoea or other venereal disease (std)

Douche

A spray of water or solution of medication into the vagina.

DP

Double penetration, one penis in the vagina, another in the anus

Drag queen

Male who dresses in female clothing

Dry fuck

Moving against one another, clothed to simulate intercourse

Dyad

A sexual love relationship consisting of two primary partners

Dyke

A lesbian

Dyspareunia

Painful intercourse for women that may be caused by hormonal imbalances, especially those that happen after menopause.

Early Ejaculation

Ejaculation occurring before a man wants it to occur.

Eat

To perform oral intercourse

Ectopic Pregnancy

A life-threatening pregnancy that develops outside the uterus, often in a fallopian tube.

Effeminate

Descriptive of a male who acts in a feminine manner

Egg

The reproductive cell in women; the largest cell in the human body.

Ejaculation

Discharge from the penis during sexual climax

Ejaculatory Inevitability

The moment during sexual excitement when a man cannot stop his ejaculation. The prostate begins contracting and pulsing out seminal fluid.

Emergency Contraception

The use of oral contraceptives or IUDs to prevent pregnancy after unprotected intercourse.

Emergency Hormonal Contraception

The use of oral contraceptives to prevent pregnancy after unprotected intercourse.

Enema

An instrument or injecting fluid into the anus to flush the lower intestines. In SM scenes enemas are used for humiliation, for preparation for other activities (fisting or anal sex) and/or for pleasure.

Epididymis

The tube in which sperm mature. It is tightly coiled on top of and behind each testis. The plural of Epididymis is epididymides.

Epididymitis

An inflammation of the Epididymis

Erectile Dysfunction

The inability to become erect or maintain an erection with a partner.

Erection

The sexual aroused state cause by a rush of blood into the veins and capillaries of the penis, coupled with a valve action which prevents its release, and further aided by the contraction of certain surface muscles on the penis, all of which combine to keep it in a hard and extended configuration until the stimuli is taken away or ejaculation occurs

Erogenous Zone

Any area of the body very sensitive to sensual touch.

Erotic

That which is sexually arousing.

Erotica

Sexually arousing imagery that is not considered pornographic, obscene, or offensive to the average person.

Erotophilia

Appreciation of the erotic

Erotophobia

Fear and anxiety about the erotic.

Erotic restraint

When movement is restricted for erotic play. It is also referred to the devices used

Escort

A person who sells companionship and may offer Sex

Estrogen

A hormone commonly made in a woman's ovaries. Estrogens major effects are seen during puberty, menstruation, and pregnancy

Eunuch

A male who has had his testicles removed

Exhibitionism

A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on exposing the sex organs to those who will be surprised.

Exhibitionist

A person who derives sexual gratification by displaying his body to others  

Facial

This is where you spunk over her face

Faeces

Solid waste that leaves the body through the anus.

Fake Orgasm

The pretence of having reached climax in order to end sex play or please a partner.

Family jewels

The testicles

Fanny

 Same as pussy, cunny, quim, etc. (This definition is provided for the benefit of Americans, who generally have a very strange idea of what a fanny is.)

Fellatio

To kiss, nibble, lick or cock-sucking

Female Circumcision

The practice of removing a girl's clitoral hood, clitoris, and/or the labia; often called female genital mutilation. This is practiced in some African, Near Eastern, and Southeast Asian cultures.

Female Impersonator (FI)

A male who, on specific occasions, cross dresses and employs stereotypical feminine dialog, voice, and mannerisms for the entertainment of other people.

Feminine

The "gender role" assigned to "females".

Fetish

Excessive or irrational devotion to some activity, a sexual interest in an object or a part of the body which someone is interested in to an extreme degree of worship with excessive devotion

Fetishistic Transvestite

A Transvestite who consistently eroticizes

Cross Dressing. May also eroticize fantasies of gender/sex change.

Fifth wheel

A heterosexual in a homosexual group

Fisting

The art of inserting the whole hand inside the vagina or anus

Flagellation

Whipping or beating to sexual orgasm

Foot fetish/ Foot worship

Sexual obsession toward feet or shoes

F->M

Female to male. Used to specify the direction of a sex or gender role

change.

Foreplay

Physical and sexual stimulation (kissing, touching, stroking, and massaging) that often happens in the excitement stage of sexual response; often

occurs before intercourse, but can lead to orgasm without intercourse.

Foreskin

A retractable tube of skin that covers and protects the glands of the penis.

FOC

Free of charge

FR

Field report, a written report of an experience with a prostitute by a client

French

French sex. Another term for fellatio. TO PERFORM ORAL INTERCOURSE

French kissing

Deep kissing, tongue kissing.

FS

Sometimes means full sex, but sometimes means full service

FTM

female to male, as in cross-dressing or a transsexual

Full house

Having more than one venereal disease (std) at the same time

Full service

Bit vague, but generally means full sex and fellatio

Full sex

Vaginal intercourse

Full strip

Should mean that she takes all her clothes off - but beware that she may have a different idea of the meaning.

FWO

French without [a condom]. Same as OWO or BBBJ.

Gang-bang

An occasion on which several men successively have sexual intercourse with one woman, Usually organised parties

Gay

Homosexual

Gaydar

The uncanny and seemingly innate ability lesbians and gay men tend to have to recognize and detect one another; from gay and radar.

Gear

Any equipment used for scene purposes

Gender

The social-cultural expression of a person's biological sex (or self-perception of one's sex, which may vary from the strictly biological). Sometimes used to mean expressly male or female.

Gender Dysphoria (GD)

Unhappiness or discomfort experienced by one whose sexual organs do not match one's gender identity.

Gender Identity

The self-perception of being male or female, or a combination of the two.

Gender (identity) community

People who identify as transvestite, transsexual, or Tran gendered, or as members of the gender community. Members of the gender community do not necessarily identify as members of the sexual minority community. (See "transgender community".)

Genderfuck

Sending mixed gender messages, especially through appearance, such as wearing a prom dress, combat boots and a moustache.

Gender neutral

Clothing, behaviours, thoughts, feelings, relationships, etc. which are considered appropriate for members of both sexes.

Gender outlaw

A person who flouts the usual gender roles.

Gender role

Arbitrary rules, assigned by society, that define what clothing, behaviours, thoughts, feelings, relationships, etc. are considered appropriate and inappropriate for members of each sex. Some clothing, behaviours, etc. are considered appropriate for members of both sexes. Which things are considered masculine, feminine, or neutral varies ccording to location, class, occasion, and numerous other factors.

Genitals

The human reproductive organs

GFE

The prostitute provide a girlfriend type experience, ( treats you like her girlfriend, kissing, etc)

Give head

To perform oral intercourse

Glans

The soft, highly sensitive tip of the clitoris or penis. In men, the urethral opening is located in the glands.

Go down on

To perform oral intercourse

Golden shower

Another name for watersports. One person urinates on another for sexual pleasure.

Gonorrhoea

A sexually transmitted bacterium that can cause sterility, arthritis, and heart problems. (std)

Greek

To perform anal intercourse

G-string

A small brief worn over the genitals

HBV (Hepatitis B Virus)

An infection that can be sexually transmitted and may cause severe liver disease and death.

Half & half

 An American term for French and sex.

Hand job

Masturbation, particularly at the hands of another

Hard on

An erect penis

Hardsports

Defecation in a sexual context. Usually means that the prostitute shits over the client, or at least for the client to watch.

Hermaphrodite

One who has both a penis and a vagina.

Hetrosexual

One who has significant sexual and romantic attractions primarily to

members of the opposite sex.

Heterosexism

The assumption that identifying as heterosexual and having sexual and romantic attractions only to members of the other sex (than oneself) is good and acceptable, and that other sexual identities and attractions are bad and unacceptable. The assumption that anyone is straight whose sexual orientation is not known, usually coupled with a "blindness" to the existence and concerns of  Lesbians/Bi/Gays

HIV

(Human Immunodeficiency Virus) An infection that weakens the body's ability to fight disease and can cause AIDS.

HJ

Hand-job. Same as hr

Hobby

The "hobby" is punting

Hobbyist

Euphemism for a man who frequents prostitutes. A (habitual) punter

Homophobia

Literally, the fear of homosexuals and homosexuality, sometimes merely implied, but often taken to the point where biased statements are made or biased actions are taken against lesbians and gay men.

Homophobe

One who is afraid of or oppresses people because one (perceives them to) have sexual and romantic attractions to members of the same sex.

Homosexual

One who desires sex only with the same sex

Hormone therapy

Used to change secondary sex characteristics, including breast size, weight distribution, and facial hair growth.

Horny

Sexually aroused; passionate

Horse around

To explore sexually without engaging in intercourse

HPV

(Human Papilloma Virus) Any of 90 different types of infection, some of  which may cause genital warts. Others may cause cancer of the cervix, vulva, or penis.

HR

Hand relief. Same as HJ

H/S

Hardsports

HSV

(Herpes Simplex Virus) An infection that can be sexually transmitted and cause a recurring rash with clusters of blistery sores on the vagina, cervix, penis, mouth, anus, buttocks, or elsewhere on the body.

Humiliation

Part of the erotic control to embarrass or to humble someone by teasing them about their sexual desires. In SM humiliation, ironically, can build a person's self-esteem by reinforcing their sexuality.

Hustler

Prostitute that searches for customers

Hyperphilia

Having sex more often than most people.

Hypoactive

Sexual Desire The lack of sexual desire.

Inclusive relationship

Intimate sexual love relationship in which all partners have agreed to form a synergistic group and in which each dyad is warm and trusting. The existing relationship may expand to include more people with mutual consent.

Identify/ied (as)

To think of oneself as having a particular sexual

identity or gender identity.

[I "identify as" a bisexual. I am bi-"identified".] To emphasise that an identity term refers to one's internal reality, as opposed to what others think or observe of one, "self-identify" is sometimes used.

Identity

How one thinks of oneself. One's internal self, as opposed to what others observe or think about one.

Impotent

Unable to engage in sexual intercourse

Incall

Where the client visits the prostitute. Opposite of outcall.

Infantilism

Infant-like behaviour in role play by wearing diapers, nursing, etc

Intersexual

A person biologically between female and male, sometimes with genital and/or reproductive body parts of both sexes. Replaces hermaphrodite. At one time meant homosexual

Jack off/ jerk off

To masturbate

Jealous

Resentfully envious or suspicious of rival influences.

Jealousy

Neurotic anxiety based on fear of losing control over a partner one regards as a possession.

Jock Itch

A very common fungal skin infection in the genital area of men that is

caused by wearing tight clothing, sweating, or not drying the genitals carefully after bathing. It can cause a reddish, scaly rash that can become inflamed, very itchy, and painful.

John

One who financially supports another for sex favours/ also known as client or punter  

Kicks

Sexual thrills

Label

How someone else sees or thinks of oneself or others.

Lace curtains

The foreskin of the penis

Latex

Material used to make fetish items like clothing

Lavender

Pertaining to the homosexual lifestyle

Lay

To perform sexual intercourse

Leather, Leather sex, Leather lifestyle

A synonym for SM used in fetish fashion and gear.

Lesbian

A female homosexual. A woman who has significant sexual and romantic attractions to members of the same sex, or who identifies as a member of the lesbian community. Bisexual women often do not feel included by this term.

Libido

Sexual appetite

Limit

In SM are the boundaries set by the dominant and the submissive for what to will or to will not do within a scene. Limits must be respected and applied to roles, levels of dominance and submission, time and also activities like whipping and paddling.

Load

The fluid from an ejaculation

M->F

Male to female. Used to specify the direction of a sex or gender role change.

Macho

Describing extreme masculinity which may involve the subordination of women. Machismo.

Male Impersonator

A female who, on specific occasions, cross dresses and employs stereotypical masculine dialog, voice, and mannerisms for the entertainment of other people.

Masochism

Where sexual gratification is achieved by pain

Masculine

A highly subjective concept of the essential qualities of a man.

Master

When the man takes control in the SM role play.

Massage parlour

Usually a brothel. This is illegal in the UK but is tolerated in many areas - although official toleration, as in Edinburgh, is rare.

Masturbation

Manual manipulation of genitals

Matinee

A sex session in the afternoon

MFS

Massage and full sex

Mish

Missionary position

Missionary position

Woman on her back, man on top facing her

Mistress

When the woman takes control in the SM role play.

MMF

A male-male-female threesome

Molluscum Contagiosum

A virus that can be sexually transmitted, causing small, pinkish-white, waxy, round, polyp like growths in the genital area or on the thighs.

Môn gendered

One who is comfortable in only one gender role? (Do people actually use  this, or is it just a syntactic extension of "bi gendered"?)

Môn sexual

One who has significant sexual and romantic attractions primarily to  members of one sex. Straight, Gay, Lesbian. Someone who is not Bisexual

"Morning-After" Pills

Emergency hormonal contraception that is taken within 72 hours of unprotected intercourse.

MTF

Male to female, as in cross-dressing or a transsexual.

Multiple Orgasms

More than one orgasm occurring within the same sexual encounter.

Mutual masturbation

Where partners manipulate each other's genitals

Narcissism

One who is stimulated by one's own body

Novice

A person with lack of experience in SM, but willing to learn.

Nuts

The testicles

Nymphomania

The desire by a woman to have sex very frequently with many different partners.

"O"

Oral sex

Obscenity

Sexually arousing imagery that is considered socially offensive.

O-levels

Oral sex

Old dirt road

Using the anus for intercourse

One way

Will perform only one type of sexual activity

Oral intercourse

A sexual activity whereby the mouth of one per-is used in connection with the sexual organs of another person to produce sex gratification

Oral

Oral sex. Either fellatio or cunnilingus - usually the former in the context of punter talk.

Orgasm

The peak of sensation during sexual activity

Other

sex/gender The other sex or gender than the reference person's own. [She has another sex partner (than her own sex).] [Are you currently in a relationship with a member of the same sex (as yourself)?]

OTK

Over the knee (spanking)

Out [someone]

To disclose a second person's sexual identity to a third person, especially without the second person's permission. 2. To disclose one's own sexual identity, sometimes without choosing to do so.

Outcall

Where the prostitute visits the client's home or hotel. Opposite of incall

Outer course

Sex play that does not include inserting the penis in the vagina or anus.

OWO

Oral without [a condom]. Same as FWO or BBBJ.

Paedophilia

Sexual love/attraction of a child by an adult

Passing

Cross-dressing well enough to be seen as a member of the opposite sex.

Passive

The person receiving intercourse

Pearl diver

One who performs oral sex on the penis

Pearl necklace

This is where you cum/spunk over her breasts/shoulders/neck

Pederasty

Insertion of the penis into the anus

Peeping tom

A voyeur

Pegging

A woman wearing a strap-on dildo to penetrate a male or female anus.

Penis

The male sex organ consisting of head, shaft and base

Perineum

The area between the anus and testicles, anus and vagina

Petticoat discipline

Punishing or humiliating a boy by dressing him as a girl.

PID

(Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) An infection of a woman's internal  reproductive system that can lead to sterility, Ectopic pregnancy, and chronic pain. It is often caused by sexually transmitted infections such as gonorrhoea and Chlamydia.

Play

Taking part of a SM scene or scene activity.

Pony training

Transformation of a male or female into a pony to be ridden, to pull a carriage or a well-trained horse in obedience

Power exchange

Sexual role-playing when one acts as the dominant and the other the submissive.

Pre-cum juice

Natural lube which oozes from the penis piss-slit

Pre-operative transsexual

(Pre-op TS) One who is actively planning to switch physical sexes, mostly to relieve "gender dysphoria". Probably, but not necessarily, "cross dresses", takes "hormone

therapy", and gets "electrolysis".

Primary relationship

A committed, long term, live in sexual love relationship which may or may not include marriage and/or shared economy.

Primary sex organs

Penis (male) or vagina (female.) (See "female", "male", "hermaphrodite", "neuter".)

Pro

A prostitute

Provider

A prostitute

Prostate

Glands at base of urethra which ejects semen

PSE

Porn Star Experience

Punter

A prostitute's client

Pushover

Easily persuaded to engage in sex

PVC

Poly-vinyl-chloride Plastic used for fetish clothing or pipes used for bondage devices.

Queen

An effeminate male homosexual

Quickie

A very brief sex act

Rape

Forcibly perform sexual intercourse

Rectum

The tube between the colon and the anus

Reverse

Means the opposite way round to that which is most common between a prostitute and her client. For example, "reverse oral" means cunnilingus and "reverse massage" means the client massaging the prostitute.

Rim/ rimming

When one person licks and kisses their partner's anus like oral sex on a female, except to the anus instead of the vagina

Ring On Pinky

Wearing a ring on the little finger of the left hand has for much of the twentieth century been a code for homosexuality

RLD

Red-light district

Rubber

A condom

Russian

A tit fuck

Sadism, sadist

Sexual pleasure that results from pain, humiliation and/or domination. The sadist delivers pain or humiliation to the people desiring it by respecting their limits and by being caring and careful.

Sadomasochis m, SM

Sexual practices in an advanced level where pain , humiliation and power exchange are being used. SM has also dominance and submission, bondage and discipline, love bondage and erotic spanking.

Safe, sane and consensual

In the SM community are characteristics of acceptable play. During activities, players take safety precautions or they do not participate in practice that could injure mentally or physically their partners. Before the activities they consent by negotiating.

Safer

Sex Ways in which people reduce the risk of getting sexually transmitted infections, including HIV.

Safe Word

A previously agreed upon signal that means a partner is no longer enjoying a sexual activity and it must stop.

Sandwich

Another term for DP

Scat

Another term for hardsports

Scene

The SM or fetish community or a SM session or occurrence during play.

Scissor

Position where two females rub their genitals against each other. (Also dangerous, as it is effectively bareback sex).

Score

To achieve sexual intercourse

Screw

The act of sexual intercourse

Scrotum

The pouch or sac which contains the testicles

Secondary relationship

An ongoing sexual love relationship in which the partners usually do not live together, and do not consider their relationship a first priority

Semen

The fluid produced during ejaculation of the male

Sex

On its own often means vaginal intercourse

Sex hormones

Substances produced by the testes, ovaries and adrenal glands in different quantities in females and males which promote bodily sexual characteristics. Certain hormones artificially taken by men can grow breasts. Other hormones taken by women can grow facial hair and lower the voice.

Sexual identity

How one perceives oneself as male, female, or in between. A biological female may identify as a male and vice versa.

Sexual love

The synergic fusing of love and sexuality into a single erotic emotion in an intimate relationship.

Sexual orientation

How a person chooses to have sex -- with the same or opposite sex, with both, with oneself, or not at all (asexual).

Sex reassignment surgery (SRS)

Surgery to change, within the limits of surgical possibility, a person's genitals to those of the other sex (and retain the possibility of sexual stimulation). In male-to-female conversion, the penis is converted to a vagina. In female-to-male conversion, the challenge has been to create a version of a penis

Sex Worker:

One who is paid for providing sex or sexually arousing conditions, including prostitution, striptease, lap dancing, commercial phone sex, and erotic massage.

Significant Other

One's chosen romantic partner.

Sixty-nine

Genital oral intercourse performed on each other. simultaneously by two partners

Slave

A submissive that is involved in a slave/master fantasy.

Slave training

The instruction of a submissive in a dominant's preference. The submissive s behaviour is conditioned.

SM Sado-masochism.

See also BDSM

Smash

A young woman's crush on another woman. The term was used in late nineteenth century and early twentieth century women's colleagues.

Smegma

White matter which collects under the foreskin of penis

Sodomy

The insertion of the penis into the anus

Solid sports

Another term for hardsports.

Solo sexual

Having a preference for sex with one's self (a term invented by Valory Gravois; please advise if there is a better existing word)

Snowballing

The action of kissing to exchange cum immediately after CIM.

Spanking

Striking or paddling a submissive in their butts.

Sperm

The fluid that erupts from the penis during ejaculation

Spoons

A position for sexual intercourse - both partners lying on their side, with the man behind the woman.

Stallion

A male who possesses a very large penis

Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD s)

Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Infections that are often or usually passed from one person to another during sexual or intimate contact. Please refer to here for details. http://www.homehealth-uk.com/medical/gumclinics.htm If worried please use this link http://www.playingsafely.co.uk/worried/where/where_can_i_get_help. asp

Straight

A heterosexual

Straight sex

Vaginal intercourse

Stud

A male who is in great demand as a sex partner

Suck off

To perform oral intercourse on the penis

Sugar daddy

A man who keeps a younger person for sexual favours

Swallows

Means that she swallows your cum

Swinger

One who accepts free love doctrine

Swish

A male who behaves in a feminine manner

Switch

When a person trades places in a SM role or physical play. Ex: top or bottom, Dom or sub. It is also a tree or bush branch used for corporal punishment.

Switch hitter

A bi-sexual

SWO

Sex without [a condom]. Same as BBF

Testicles

The male reproductive glands

TG

Transgender

Third sex

Homosexuals

TLC

Tender loving care

Tomboy

A girl who prefers the activities, privileges and dress of boys, and avoids female restrictions; sometimes used to describe adult women.

Tongue

(verb) To perform oral intercourse

Toolbox

The male genitals

Torture

Painful actions used to enhance sexual pleasure.

Trade

A passive male prostitute for homosexuals

Training

Discipline used by the Dom to control the sub's behaviour, condition and/or attitude. Pony training, anal training, position training, voice command response, etc. can be used for training.

Transgender

An umbrella term for those who blur the lines of traditional gender expression.

Transgendered (TG)

One who switches gender roles, whether just once, or many times at will. Inclusive term for transsexuals and transvestites

Transvestite

A person who dresses in the clothes and assumes the gender expression of the opposite sex.

TS, Transsexual

A person that mismatches his/her personal psychology. They go for counselling, hormone treatments and surgery. Before surgery a transsexual is referred as a "pre-op" TS and after surgery is a "post-op" TS.

Transvestite (TV)

One who occasionally dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex for sexual or emotional pleasure, or both. Can be male or female, hetero- or homosexual, bi- or solo sexual, and may partially or wholly cross-dress.  Some have felt the word is a negative medical term; cross dresser and cross-dressing are more commonly used today. Transvestism, tranny

Triad

The most basic and common form of multi-partner relationship, consisting of three adult primary partners, usually two of one sex and one of the other. threesome

Uncovered

Without a condom

Unisex

Not pertaining to one sex only. Unisex clothing can be worn by both traditional sexes. A unisex hair salon invites customers of both sexes. Unisexual

Urethra

Duct which carries urine and semen

Urolagnia

Sexual pleasure from watching another drink urine

Vacuum cleaner

One who applies great suction during oral sex

Vagina

Orifice of female sex organs

Vanilla sex

Any non kinky sex acts

Versatile

Bi-sexual

VFM

Value for money

Vinyl

Material used for fetish fashions

Virility

The sexual power and capacity of a male

Voyeur

One who gains sexual satisfaction from watching others undressing or engage in sexual acts

Walk-up

This is a type of establishment that is common in Soho (including Chinatown), A walk-up has an open door leading into a flat (or two or three) in each of which a prostitute works. They advertise mainly by means of a note by the entrance saying "model" and usually giving some details.

Watersports

Urination in a sexual context. Usually means that the prostitute pisses over the client, or at least for the client to watch.

WG

Working girl, same as prostitute/escort

Wham bam

Rapid and hurried sexual activity

Wiener

The penis

With

Often means "with a condom"

Without

Often means "without a condom"

Whip

Object that can be also a cane, crop, paddle or slapper, or a single or multiple-lash whips to beat a submissive.

Working girl

Euphemism for a prostitute

Work up

To create passion or to be passionate

Worship

To lavish attention to a body part (Ex: feet.) Also, a role playing attitude toward a dominant.

W/S

Watersports

X-frame

A bondage frame in the shape of an "X" in a horizontal position